It's not just you who suffers if you are in debt - your children may be victims too.
Two and a half million children are living in families dealing with debt problems, and a further 2.9 million families are struggling to keep up with their payments. These are the major findings from a report we’ve released alongside the Children’s Society.
Our new “Debt Trap” report shows that parents can become stuck in a toxic cycle of borrowing. This in turn leads to children becoming the unwitting victims of debt.
The research shows that there are far-reaching consequences for children when their parents are in problem debt, and more needs to be done to reduce the impact. This is the challenge for Government, regulators, creditors and the charity sector.
How does debt affect children?
When we looked into the impact of debt problems on children we found that children from families dealing with debt are much more likely to be having a rough time than families without debt.
Our research found that nine out of 10 parents in problem debt have cut back on essential items like food, clothing or heating for their children within the last year so they could keep up payments on debts.
Do kids really know what's going on with their family's finances?
Childhood should be an age of innocence but our research has revealed that kids probably know more about their household's financial situation than you might think. Half of the children we spoke to knew that money problems were a source of arguments in the family and 59% worry about their family’s financial situation.
Whether it's blazing rows in front of the kids or frosty silences over the breakfast table, it seems that children are aware of the impact money can have on relationships and it leads to them worry too.
We all want the best for our children but the pressure on household finances is making it hard for parents to look after their kids without falling into the debt trap, a vicious circle of needing credit for essentials which then makes it even harder to cope the next month when repayments kick in.
What can be done?
We think it's possible to minimise the impact of debt on children. It's not rocket science, we just need to see some common sense measures to be introduced that will safeguard children from the sharp edges of financial difficulty. Here are our recommendations:
- The Government should review whether the protection for children against the harm caused by debt collection – including evictions, bailiffs and court action – is fit for purpose and consider developing a ‘breathing space’ scheme to give struggling families an extended period of protection from additional charges, further interest and enforcement action.
- Local councils should create a debt collection strategy for Council Tax arrears which takes into account the impact on families with children
- Regulators should make sure that creditors have ‘early warning systems’ in place, so they know when their customers are facing financial difficulties and offer advice and support
- Earlier and wider access to debt support and advice should be introduced to help families put the brakes on a downward cycle of debt and reduce the impact on children
- There needs to be tighter restrictions on advertising to children, as well as piloting savings accounts for children through credit unions
Who's teaching our kids about money?
[SPOTLIGHT]Being good with money isn't something that we're born with; it can take many years to get the skills you need to run the household finances. We asked children aged 10 to 17 if their school had taught them about money management and debt; only one in five had.
Of the same group more than half said they see adverts for loans often or all the time.
This suggests that today's children are learning about money from the adverts we see all around us, trying to tempt us into debt rather than a more practical and impartial approach from within the classrooms. If things carry on this way, it's easy to see future generations stumbling into a lifestyle of dependency on debt, unless something is done to improve money education.
What should you do if you’re a parent with debt problems?
If you’re finding it hard to manage the demands of raising a family and keeping on top of your finances then contact us for advice.
We can help you to build a realistic monthly budget and offer advice about the best ways to cope. You can get help by using our online Debt Remedy advice tool or calling us to speak to a debt advisor.
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