Save money on your wedding: invitations, photography, the dress and more

If you've just got engaged, congratulations! Here's how to have your dream wedding and cut the cost of invitations, the venue, photography, 'the dress' and other key expenses for the big day.

Invitations

Inviting all of your guests to your big day can work out to be extremely pricey by the time you’ve paid for 70 odd invitation cards – in fact you could end up forking out as much as £200 – particularly if you don’t shop around.

Big names such as Confetti.co.uk make their products look incredibly attractive. But they can work out to be far more expensive than certain less well-known websites.

If you decide to make your own wedding stationery, it's well worth checking out general card craft websites that are not specifically targeted towards weddings, such as Hobbycraft, as these websites will be far far cheaper.

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So make sure you shop around fully before you choose your invitations to ensure you’re getting the very best deal.

Alternatively, to really cut back on this expense, you could just email your guests to let them know the details instead!

Save the date cards

Save the date cards are an even bigger rip-off than the invitations. These can easily cost £1 per card, which means if you’ve got 70 to send out, that’s another £70 down the drain. Given that all save the date cards do is tell guests to put the date of your wedding in their diaries, we personally think they are completely unnecessary. What’s wrong with sending an email or good old-fashioned word-of-mouth?

Favours

Favours seem to have increased in popularity over recent years. If you don’t know what they are, quite simply, they are little gifts placed on the tables for your guests. These can range from sugared almonds, to chocolates, to candles.

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However, this can really eat into your budget. You can pay anything from £1 to £5 per person for your favours, which means it soon gets expensive. If you’ve got 100 guests, and each favour is costing you £3, that’s another £300 to pay.

A far cheaper way is to not bother at all – after all, your guests are there to share your special day with you, not to be given presents. Many guests forget and leave them on the table anyway, especially if they've had a few glasses too many.

If you really do want to have favours, why not bake some biscuits and wrap them up nicely instead?

Hair and make-up

These days it can cost as much as £100 to get your hair done professionally, and another £100 to have your make-up done – if not more. And that’s just for the bride! On top of that, you might have to pay out for your bridesmaids/mother-of-the-bride/groom’s mum etc.

To us, this just seems outrageous. After all, you’re only paying for someone to slap a bit of make-up on your face and make your hair look pretty. And what really bugs me is that even if you want something fairly simple, you’re going to pay out exactly the same amount as someone who’s getting their hair completely restyled, curled, pinned, and eight layers of make-up. Humph.

A far better way is to ask a clever friend to do your hair and make-up for you, or head down to a department store such as Debenhams and see if you can bag a free make-over (of course, this is only practical if your wedding venue is near a town!). Alternatively, ask a student learning to be a professional make-up artist. There are a few on studentgems or you could search for a local make-up course and email the course organiser to see if anyone is looking for work.

The same strategy could work for hair, or you could simply wear your hair down with a few accessories and ask your hairdresser to dry it curly or straight.

Photography

Wedding photography can cost an arm and a leg. Generally, you could be paying anything between £500 to over £1,000 – more if you want to have your wedding filmed. In fact, some photographers will charge as much as £2,000 if you want around six hours of coverage, plus photo albums. Of course, some photographers may be worth it - but it sure is an awful lot of money!

Admittedly, you will want to have some good photos to remember the day by. But if you're lucky enough to have a friend who is a photographer, you might want to see whether they are prepared to take photos or film the wedding as their gift to you! You could also ask several guests to take photos on their cameras, and then upload all the pictures at the end of the evening.

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If you need to hire a professional, take the time to shop around and do your research to make sure you know exactly what is included in the package. Perhaps you could cut down on the number of hours the photographer will be present, and forgo any photo albums that are included to keep the costs down.

Always ask for full copyright to any images taken. You might not get it, but it's worth asking for. Either way, always make sure you have paid for the right to print and distribute the photos as you wish. Ask about printing costs in advance, and if they seem high, get a high-resolution CD of all images so that you don't have to pay the photographer an extra fee for the right to print the photos afterwards, and can get them printed more cheaply yourself.

The dress

We’ve heard stories of brides paying out thousands for their special wedding day dress. How many times are you going to wear it? Oh yes, just once. Why would you want to pay £3,000 for a designer dress that’s going to spend the rest of its life packed in a box?

A far more sensible option is to head down to a high street retailer – many high street shops offer some great bridal wear at reasonable prices. For example, Coast, Monsoon, Phase Eight, Marks & Spencer and Debenhams all offer beautiful 'off the shelf' bridalwear for around £200, and there are some stunning, dirt-cheap wedding dresses if you don't mind ordering online (unless you can get to the US to try it on first) from top American retailer Nordstrom. What’s more, specialist wedding dress charity shops (such as Oxfam and St Ann's Hospice) are also well worth checking out for a bargain dress, as is the secondhand website sellmyweddingdress.co.uk.

You should also explore online shops like Milly's Bridal for bargain finds.

Finally, if you know which design you want and are happy to take the measurements yourself, you could consider getting a cheeky copycat version made in China or design your own and get it made cheaply. 

Venue and the extras

To keep costs down, consider hiring a venue during off-peak months (in other words, not during May to September), and on weekdays. Consider using village halls, local authority buildings and country pubs for a more value-for-money option. Read 23 ways to have your dream wedding for less to find out more about this.

When picking your venue make sure you include the cost of the extras you will need on the day.

Quite often you will find that the price you’re paying for the venue doesn’t include extras such as bar staff, tables, chairs, crockery, and so on. As a result, you’ll find the costs soon stack up! So make sure you do your research fully – don’t assume that just because a particular venue looks cheap, it is!

So if you’re getting married in the near future, make sure you keep these rip-offs in mind and don’t get caught out! Good luck!

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This article has been updated.